J.J. Carrell discusses his experience creating a documentary and the emotional roller coaster that comes with it. He talks about the challenges of relinquishing control and entrusting his vision to his partner. J.J. shares his passion for documenting the border and the gray areas of law enforcement. He reflects on the importance of minimizing regret and the vulnerability that comes with pursuing his dreams. J.J. also discusses the desensitization that comes with his previous career in law enforcement and how he balances the heavy subject matter with breaks and play. He shares his definition of success and the challenges of transitioning from a structured career to a more open-ended one. The conversation explores the themes of redefining success, finding joy in the journey, and the importance of being bold. The speakers discuss how success is not just about achieving goals, but also about having fun and enjoying the process. They emphasize the need to define success for oneself and not let others' opinions restrict personal growth. They also touch on the challenges of social media and the constant desire for more. The speakers share personal stories and experiences, highlighting the role of gratitude and appreciation in finding happiness. They discuss the impact of parental support and the importance of being a great parent. The conversation concludes with the advice to be bold and not fear rejection, while also keeping an open mind and broadening one's scope of success.